From: Timko, Terry M
Sent: Friday, October 21, 2016 6:51 PM
Sent: Friday, October 21, 2016 6:51 PM
Subject: Maura Update - Thursday Oct 20th - Character Development
Wow it has been a month since the last update and this one feels
a little rushed.
As reported last time we have been in a much needed peaceful
period with Maura taking a break from treatment, letting her brain heal before
we begin the cancer fight again. For us this chapter has turned out to be
about character development, reconnecting with and getting to know people close
to our story better. We’ve been able to spend quality time with friends
and family, process through what’s going on, share our story and gain from
others knowledge. It has been good to be home and be with the boys.
Maura has been really intentional with her limited time and
energy spending it with the boys, meeting with and hanging out with many of
you, pushing her therapy and getting neurological rest. We continue to
cover her with prayer and worship and hope to have another group worship
session in a week or so.
I’ve gone back to work full time which has gone really well
but definitely an adjustment with all I have on my plate. I have to admit
that I’m in a pretty dry place spiritually and need to take better care of
myself physically. Sleep is a real issue. So I am really looking
forward to ManCamp this weekend with 2,000 of my closest friends J. Highly recommend checking out the
video and go next
time if you can (I hear WomanCamp is awesome too), it is amazing how much
healing and transformation can happen in a weekend. I’m hoping the Lord
uses it to refresh me and kick me out of the funk I’ve been in.
Clinically we are 7 weeks out from the ICU and a lot of
steroids later Maura’s symptoms have improved a ton. Language is labored
at times and her short and long term memory are still compromised resulting in
slow processing. Without further brain injury from the tumor or swelling
her short term and working memory should improve on its own and her language
should improve as she works it and the neural pathways re-route. Some of
this may also be related to residual inflammation in her brain.
While the steroids helped reduce the swelling in her head,
they have also taken the expected toll. She is only sleeping 3 to 5 hrs a
night and is retaining a lot of water (like 10-15lbs) which has been really
limiting her in many ways. So they started to taper her steroids about 2
weeks ago in preparation for starting treatment next week - 2 weeks earlier
than anticipated. The results are some of her neurological symptoms have
started to worsen at times over the past 2 weeks which has been discouraging.
So we are driving to Memorial Slone-Kettering in NYC
Sunday/Monday (they don’t want her flying) where she is getting her MRI, blood
work and seeing the doctors. Hopefully we get good news and they start
her Therapy Tuesday and we drive home. The we would be back on our every other
week to NYC schedule until her symptoms warrant her staying between treatments.
As we start the immunotherapy it should trigger her immune
system to attack the cancer which will lead to a return of the swelling and
related neurological symptoms. She should still be OK for a couple
months as the symptoms (hopefully) come on more slowly w/o radiation, flying
and chemo. When she can’t tolerate it any longer we’ll take another pause
in the treatment. Then rinse & repeat. That’s the plan at least.
Our prayer is for good news on Tuesday, for clarity in
decisions required, that she can tolerate the treatments and a high percentage
of the tumor cells are susceptible to this treatment. We also
ask that you pray for sleep and the side effects of the steroids would diminish
quickly now that she is on a low dose of steroids.
That is all I have for now. Look for another update
next week. As always we love you and thank you so much for your
remarkable prayers and support. God is good.
-Love Terry and Maura