From: Timko, Terry M 
Sent: 
Wednesday, July 26, 2017 7:43 PM
Subject: Maura Update July 26th

Dear, Dear friends,

As you have likely heard by now Maura left us Sunday morning to be with the Father in heaven where I am sure she heard “Well done, good and faithful servant!”  This is not a hope, but a confidence, a joy in knowing Maura is with our Father. She is part of the “great cloud of witnesses” worshiping and interceding as she was made to do.

It is a bit odd and even unnerving how well we are doing.  We are sad, happy, tiered and encourage all at the same time.  This has been a long couple of chapters in our lives and I thank you all for sharing with us and for all your support.  There is so much bouncing around in my head.  I had thought I could get more of it down on paper to share with you in this update but I need more time to process.

The day she died, someone shared an article Maura wrote 3 years ago which I had never seen: “Lessons from a Long Season”.   It brought me great joy to hear her “voice”.  It is as if the Holy Spirit led her to write it for that day and the Lessons she wrote of prepared her for the journey of the past year .  So rather than my rambling I’m going to let you hear her too.  I’ve reposted in on a work in progress blog I’ll be posting other things as a remembrance of Maura including these updates and some of your responses.  You can find the article here: https://mauratimkosjourney.blogspot.com/

I will probably follow-up with another note next week as the service comes together and I’ve had more time to collect my thoughts.  I’ll also post some of the amazing stories and encouragements folks shared with us as well as post pictures of many of you and Maura from this past year and over the past decades.  If you have any please send them to me – Thanks.

Memorial Service Logistics:
You all should have received an email/evite from my friend Arnaldo Vazquez copied below. Please let him know, ideally through the evite (mine attached) if you will be attending the service, banquet and if you need a room.  As the banquet is lightly catered and slightly pot luck, we would like a headcount.  If you would like to make something for the banquet please contact {contact info deleted}.

In loving memory of Maura Timko - 11/7/1969 - 7/23/2017. Beloved wife of Terry Timko, Mother of Daniel, Josh and Ethan. Forever in our hearts. A memorial service will be held at the Vineyard Church (Tri-County) on Saturday August 5th 2017 at around 11:00 AM.  A reception immediately following at DoubleTree in Blue Ash, about 10 mins from the Vineyard Church (6300 E Kemper Rd, Sharonville, OH 45241, 513.489.3636). 
More Details:
1)      Dress code:  The service is casual, come as you are, Maura would not want it any other way.
2)      Many people have been asking about where to send flowers or donations.  Terry has been very touched by these gestures.  In this regard he has asked me to communicate 3 options:
Option 1: Donations to Hospice of Cincinnati under the name of Maura Timko (Hospice of Cincinnati, C/O Bethesda Foundation, 10500 Montgomery Road, Cincinnati, OH 45242). Terry and Maura have always been supporters of Hospice and were blessed by their care in this season.
Option 2: Boys Education. Go to any Huntington Bank and make a deposit to the Timko Family Education Fund.
Option 3: Alternatively you can mail checks to 3528 Stettinius Ave. Cincinnati, OH 45208 made out to Hospice (see details above) or Timko Family Education Fund, or drop them off at the service Saturday the 5th.
3)      Several people have offered their homes for those from out of town who don’t want to incur the cost of a hotel.  Contact {contact info deleted} if you would like to take up this offer.
4)      We reserved a block of rooms at the DoubleTree in Blue Ash (this is where the reception will be as well, 6300 E Kemper Rd, Sharonville, OH 45241, 513.489.3636) and 10 min from the service (5 if you drive like Terry). The rate is $116. Just call and tell them you are with the Timko party to get the rate.
5)      The reception will be lightly catered and slightly pot luck.  Several people offered to make food for the reception. If you are interested please email {contact info deleted} who is coordinating this.  Please bring Tupperware as I’m sure we will have too much food.  Maura always liked to feed people so it will be fitting that you all go home with some :). 
6)      Accept the invite and on comments section, answer the following:
-Attending the memorial service? Yes/No
-Attending the reception? Yes/No

That is it for now friends.  Know we are still doing remarkable well.


Terry, Josh, Ethan and Daniel.

Climb - Will Reagan

I lean not on my own understanding
My life is in the hands of the Maker of Heaven
I give it all to You, God
Trusting that You’ll make something beautiful out of me
I will climb this mountain with my hands wide open
There’s nothing I hold onto
If I had to choose one song that symbolized this journey and brought us the most comfort it would be this one. It was a constant in our lives since Janet brought it to us in the hospital back in May of 2016. I will forever think of this as Maura's anthem as it so clearly represents her approach to cancer and life in general